why cant i forget him?

the article :

Do you think it was true love if you can't forget someone after 9 years? I've read dozens of blogs on the internet that say "You'll forget your ex after however many months". Some say a month, two months, a year, 3 years, whatever. But I think about my ex everyday and it's been more than 9 years now. Why can't I get this guy out of my head? I've tried everything, to getting rid of all of his things, to having a little "ceremony" where I told him goodbye (I also read this on the internet that it helps. I've dated other men, but have never been able to find true happiness since I was with "the one".

Let me tell you about him. We were in love in high school and halfway through college. We never fought, and he was so passionate. Everything in our world was heavenly. We talked about marriage, but nothing official. He then transferred to a university that was a few states away from me. At first we called, but slowly we just lost contact. My parents were never crazy about him, so at the time I didn't pursue it and basically let him go. Now it's nine years later and I have missed him everyday.

I have just found out through a mutual friend that he has just moved back close to my town, but he has a girlfriend. My first instinct is try to go see him, but I really don't want to do anything to upset his life. Why can't I just forget and move on? I want so badly just to forget him - remove him from my heart and memory. What is wrong with me?

my comment :

I  have a several ways , first you don’t thing about your beautiful memory with him because it make you remember him always. Thing about a bad memory with him, don’t call him again. Forget him , forget your memory.  And try to speak with your heart  that he isn’t your true love.  Second, try to looking for the activity, such as shopping, visit your friend, gathering with family or whatever that spend your time. And third try to open your heart to other men.. don’t be surrender . try try and try. If he is your true love he will come back again with you. But the reality he was with other girl . and you still stuck in him. What a pitty you are.. he was happy with his new life, and you still sadly thinking about him. Actually, just ourself  that handling it all. As the proverb says “where there is a will there is away .

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Grammer on TOEFL

a1.       Noun Phrase adalah frasa antara noun, pronoun, atau number (berfungsi sebagai head) dan satu atau lebih modifier.

Ex              :

 1. …………..the economy’s performance, strengths and weaknesess are the tables, charts, and data published by public and private agencies.

a. Analyzing

b. The tools for analyzing

c. The analysis of

b2.   Word order atau tata urut kata merupakan cara untuk menyusun kata – kata dalam urutan atau susunan yang tepat dan benar. Pembahasan dalam hal ini meliputi tata urut kata keterangan (adverb) dalam kalimat dan tata urut kata dalam Frase Benda (Noun Phrase).

Ex  :

 1 He is studying now English at Miami-Dade Community College.

a.  He is now studying English at Miami-Dade Community College.

b. He is now study English at Miami-Dade Community College.

c. Don’t Know

2. He was so excited he hardly could think.

a. He was so exciting he could hardly think.

b. He was so excited he could hardly think.

c. Don’t Know

3. The light was so bright that we had to cover from time to time our eyes.

a. The light were so bright that we had to cover our eyes from time to time.

b. The light was so bright that we had to cover our eyes from time to time.

c. Don’t Know

c3.  Conjunctions (konjungsi) adalah kata penghubung yang berfungsi untuk menghubungkan dua kalimat atau lebih menjadi satu kalimat. Berikut beberapa conjunctions yang sering digunakan.

Ex :

1.      device for electronically transmitting written material; electronically transmitted document

a.       franchise

b.      fraction

c.       fax

2. painstaking labor; careful planning; adding of extra details; act of improving; production

a. terminology

b.  resolve

c. elaboration

4. Parallelism artinya kata-kata yang digunakan dalam rangkaian atau kelompok yang harus mempunyai bentuk yang sama secara grammar. Ketika kita menggunakan kata-kata atau frase yang dihubungkan dengan kata penghubung dalam sebuah rangkaian, maka bentuknya harus sama secara grammar.

Ex              :

1. Terry likes swimming and………

a. diving

b. dive

c. dived

Kadang-kadang kata-kata yang berulang-ulang seperti auxiliary verbs, dapat dihilangkan pada rangkaian selanjutnya.

Ex        :

2. I have been to paris and………..

a. saw the eiffel tower

b. have seen the eiffel tower

c. see the Eiffel tower

5. Noun Clause adalah dependent clause yang berfungsi sebagai noun (kata benda).

• Klausa kata benda ini dapat berfungsi sebagai subject maupun object didalam suatu clause atau phrase lain.
• Karena berfungsi sebagai kata benda, maka dapat digantikan dengan pronoun “it“.

Ex        :

1. …………was late cused many problems.

a. That he

b. The driver

c. Because

6. Degree of comparison terdapat tiga tingkatan dalam Degrees of Comparison, pertama yaitu positive/ negative comparison, kedua comparative dan yang terakhir adalah superlative. Tetapi sebelum kita melangkah ke sub-bagian tersebut, alangkah baiknya jika paham terlebih dahulu pembentukan -er/est yang mutlak dibutuhkan ketika kita menggunakan comparative dan superlative.

Ex        :

1.      Your house is………………  than mine, but Alex’s house is the biggest

a.       Bigger

b.      Biggest

c.       big

7.    Gerund

• Gerund adalah suatu kata yang dibentuk dari verb (kata kerja) dengan ditambahkan suffix (akhiran ) -ing dan berfungsi sebagai noun (kata benda).
• Gerund merupakan verbal, yaitu suatu kata yang dibentuk dari kata kerja, namun berfungsi sebagai part of speech lain. Verbal yang lain yaitu infinitive dan participle. Seperti verbal lainnya, kata ini lebih umum untuk menamai action (aksi) atau state of being (keadaan).
• Karena gerund berfungsi sebagai kata benda, maka harus ada verb lain dalam suatu kalimat.
• Verbal ini dapat dipadukan dengan modifier dengan atau tanpa tambahan noun(s), pronoun(s), atau noun phrase membentuk gerund phrase. 

Ex        :

1.He allowed me ……………his car.

a. use

b. to use

c. using

2.I don’t mind ……………a roommate.

a. have

b. having

c. to have

8. Tenses

1.  During the Precambrian period, the earth’s curst formed, and life……. In the seas

a. First appeared

b. The first appear

c. The first appearance

d. Appearing first

(A) Because using the verb 3

2. Before the statue of liberty in the united states, newspaper invited the public to help determine where….. .placed after its arrival

a. Should the statue be

b. The statue being

c. It should be the statue

d. The statue should be

(D) Because the use of past continuous tense is future should +be

3. Seismic reflection profiling has…….. the ocean floor is underlain by a thin layer of nearly transparent sediments.

a. Reveal that

b. Revealed that

c. The revelation of

d. Revealed about

(B) Because using the present perfect tense is to use has + verb 3

4. …………..and terrifying, coral snakes can grow to 4 feet (1.2 meters) in length

a. They are extremely poisonous

b. The posion is extreme

c. Extremely poisonous

d. An extreme amount of poisonous

(a) Because it uses the present tense using the verb 1 and to be is

5. As…………… in greek and roman mythology, harpies were frightful monsters that were half woman and half bird

a. Described

b. To described

c. Description

d. Describing

(B) Due to be added as a complement as to

6. D.w grifitth pioneered many of the stylistic features and filmmaking techiniques….. as the hollywood standard

a. That estabilished

b. That became estabilished

c. What estabilished

d. What became estabilished

(B) Because it has happened in the past

7. By the end of this month, I ……my assignment

a. Will finish

b. Will have finished

c. Finish

d. Am finishing

(b) Because the use of present future perfect tense is future S+will/shall+V3

8. I meet Tyas this morning when I …….for the bus

a. Wait

b. Waited

c. Has waiting

d. Was waiting

(D) Because it uses the past tense using the Was+Verb 2

9. I know that one of my student ……in your company since he graduated

a. Work

b. Working

c. Have work

d. Has been working

(c) Because it uses the present perfect tense using since

10. Hadi looks very tired, he,,,, for hours now

a. Drove

b. Has been driving

c. Had driving

d. Had been driving

(b) Because it uses the present perfect continuous tense using the Has+been+V erb 1+ing

11. I hope that by the time my father retires,I…….. a job

a. Will have got

b. Get

c. Am getting

d. Have got

(a) Because it uses the future perfect tense using the Will/shall+have+verb3

12. “Did you meet your sister yesterday?”

“No,she……for Surabaya

a. Would leave

b. Has left

c. Had left

d. Is leaving

(C) Baecause it uses the past perfect tense using the Had+Verb3

sources :

http://www.wordsmile.com/noun-phrase-introduction

http://englishis-fun.blogspot.com/2009/01/word-order.html

http://www.bahasainggris-online.com/2013/04/conjunctions.html

http://www.belajarbahasainggrisyuk.com/bentuk-parallel-structures/

http://www.wordsmile.com/noun-clause

http://unknown-mboh.blogspot.com/2012/11/pengertian-dan-contoh-degrees-of.html

http://www.wordsmile.com/pengertian-dan-contoh-gerund

http://www.wordsmile.com/pengertian-dan-contoh-superlative-degree-adjective

http://dewimutz.wordpress.com/bhs-inggris-bisnis-2-contoh-conditional-if/

http://www.belajarbahasainggrisyuk.com/soal-dan-jawaban-bahasa-inggris-word-order/

http://cowobungsu.blogspot.com/2012/04/strategi-20-menggali-fungsi-gerund.html

http://englishpracticetest.blogspot.com/2012/04/word-vocabulary-games-verb-conjunction.html

 

How to prepare a concept and strategy of education for children

Education for children is not only just the responsibility of the cost. Providing education for children means responsibility for the process and achievement of children to performance and quality of their education.

Since their early ages until they are ready to live independently, parents full role in choosing the environment, place and educational model.

Defining education for children should be a vision and agenda when a couple has been determined to enter the gate of marriage.

Starting from how the couple set their manner as a parent when the fetus has grown in the womb. The education also must begin when eyes of your baby look at the world for the first time.

And also when for the first time the tiny feet enter the gates of their playgroup, parents always have to be a model educator before finally allow the third party, such as schools, teachers you entrusted to help transforming varieties of discipline and knowledge.

Provision of facilities and costs, provide mentoring, supervision and even more than just advice, it is all forms of educational responsibility towards the mandate God has entrusted to us.Children are entrusted, and entrusted it is the trust that must be fulfilled. And nothing is more precious in this world except the Lord keep the deposit wholeheartedly. Generate a bright child and a good personality. Child scoring instinct of every human being, of course, normal.

As being virtuous and intelligent, has a definite intelligent offspring of human desire as a parent. As a civilized and civilized creature, then have a generation of righteous personality, polite and civilized is the desire of us all.

If you do not want to say confusion in the concept of providing and implementing the strategy since the early education, mentoring and adolescence when adult supervision and debriefing, what causes moral decay present generation to scattered cases of abortion? Why still less control over their children when a teenager? Referrals and survival supplies such as whether to when they entered the age of independence not only in fact increase unemployment?

Got a different view in educating children? I’m not an expert, I just parents who are always learning. I’m sure readers have different views and experience, is not it always good to share ..? Write your comment here .

sources : http://masbadar.com/how-to-prepare-a-strategy-and-concept-of-education-for-children/